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7 Hours!!

31 Oct

Trust in Him at all times, you people;
pour out your hearts to Him, for God is our Refuge.
Psalm 62:8

 

I love this boy!

I love this boy!

The little boy was distraught with the beginning of school. Each morning when his Momma came to wake him up, he immediately groaned his disappointment about the apparent new obligation to committing another day of his life to school.  His learning career up to this point had consisted of Preschool for 3 days a week at 3 hours each day.  For a 4 year old, that was fun and acceptable.  But kindergarten was very different for this 5 year old, and he wasn’t so excited.  He was obsessed with being away from home for 7 hours each day!

In an attempt to help Cole understand and to grasp the concept of 7 hours, Momma explained to him that there are 24 hours in one day … and that he is only away from home for 7 of those 24 hours. In quite the panic, Cole then asked if first graders have to go to school for 24 hours!  Poor thing.  In the midst of his fear and dread, he missed the point.

A few weeks ago, Mimi volunteered to spend a Friday with the little ones while Daddy worked and Mom was in charge of Ladies’ Retreat and was heading out of town for a very busy weekend. Mimi’s first assignment was to get Cole out of bed and ready for school so he could catch the bus at 9 am.  As I kissed him good-bye, I explained to him that I would meet him at the bus stop after school.  He became greatly concerned … “Are you sure you’ll still be here, Mimi? It’s 7 hours!”  I reassured him that his little sister and I would be waiting for him…and his words when he got off of the bus at 4 pm?  “You’re still here!”

I find myself obsessing over the same thing, except mine isn’t just 7 hours!  I have a variety of times, obligations, and concerns that seemingly overwhelm me. Work, of course, consumes a huge percentage of my everyday.  But without a job, we would be without many of the necessities of life.  One of those necessities is the evening meal – another item to obsess over.  After working all day, my motivation meter and energy level is on the low side, but we need to eat and can’t afford to go out all the time.  Thankfully, my gracious husband enjoys helping in the kitchen and it is often a joint effort to put dinner on the table.

Mimi's Loves

Mimi’s Loves

Just as Cole is finding out, even at the young age of 5 years old, life is full and busy. Even though he is concerned about the fun and exciting things he is missing at home while he’s away to school, he is learning that his own world of little-boy experiences can be fulfilling.  In my world, Mimi has allowed the calendar to nearly flip to November before taking the time to post another Morsels of Mercy.  “7 hours!!!”  But the busyness has included our annual fall trip on the motorcycle to Toms River, New Jersey.  We have taken two trips to Indiana to be with my precious mother-in-law since the death of her husband.  We recently enjoyed a fun weekend with the grandkids at the pumpkin patch/apple orchard.  There was another weekend of squirreling away freshly roasted green chilis, butternut squash, corn and other veggies – packing the freezer full of yummy food!  There are always good and blessed moments in the midst of our  “7 hours!”!

With the crowded and non-stop days of the upcoming holidays just around the corner, won’t you join me in giving all of our “7 hours!” to the Keeper of all times?

Since ancient times no one has heard,
no ear has perceived,
no eye has seen any God besides You,
Who acts on behalf of those who wait for Him.
Isaiah 64:4

Trust in Him at all times, you people; pour out your hearts to Him, for God is our Refuge.
Psalm 62:8

Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence,
so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

Hebrews 4:16

Until next time,
Debbie

“Please excuse the mess … site under construction.”  In the midst of our recent move, our domain name expired causing us to unexpectedly and immediately change email addresses … causing a crash to my morselsofmercy site and its format of family pictures.  There is a fix to all things, but I simply have not felt like I could justify the time needed to put everything in its proper place again.  So, please excuse the mess.  At least there is new verbiage and an update to my crazy but blessed life. The pictures on the sidebar will be a pleasant surprise for another day.”

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Labor Day Mini-Vaca

7 Sep

They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching
and to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.
Acts 2:42

There were several options floating around as possible destinations for the final long weekend of the summer … and we chose the one that combined a few of our favorite things, and topped it off with a visit to Toms River, New Jersey.

Having taken two weekend trips already to the beach this summer, we put the car on auto pilot and headed the 3 hours east to the sandy shores of New Jersey.  Our early morning arrival at the board walk secured us a front-row parking spot and a short distance to walk to the ocean with our strategically packed bags, beach umbrella and sand chairs.  Since the day was still young and only a handful of seasonal guests were already set up, we claimed our spot at the water’s edge and were in awe at the calmness of the sea.  It looked more like a lake than an ocean that continually slipped further and further away as the tide went out.  We pulled the umbrella and dragged the chairs down closer to the surf a couple times, and by afternoon, children were giggling, older kids were skim boarding, and people of all ages were wading out to where the waves were finally picking up some momentum and adding some splash to the day.  That is usually where Tim will be found.  He loves to go out as far as he can in the water and still barely touch … and just roll with the flow.  Literally.  When he’s not bobbing up and down in the waves, he’s back up on the sand taking a nap in the sunshine.  For me, the act of sitting and doing nothing is very foreign to my normal daily routine, but at the beach, it’s acceptable and embraced…what luxury!!  So, I enjoy watching people and sometimes reading.  After a full day in the sun and surf, a quick clean-up and change takes place in the bath house, followed by a delicious dinner at our favorite local DDD spot (Diners, Drive-in and Dives) and a leisurely evening drive south to find some friends of ours.

Toms River, New Jersey has been a special place in my heart ever since 1996 when a pastor friend of ours accompanied Hershey Nazarene Church on a Work & Witness trip to Albuquerque, NM.  In the next 4 years, Pastor Del returned to Nazarene  Indian Bible College a few times with teams from his own congregation, this time working with our family as the host Work & Witness coordinators and giving us the privilege of getting to know all those fine folks from New Jersey.  Through the years, a connection has remained in tact due to the creative pens of my friend and I.  Del Bieber can tell a story like no other and has captured my attention every time he publishes a new devotional.

Del and Patsy Bieber

Having received an invitation to stay at their home during one of our weekend jaunts to the shore, Tim and I graciously accepted and found our way last weekend to the parsonage of Del and Patsy Bieber.  It did my heart so much good to simply sit and mutually share about life, family, health, prayer concerns and the memories that originated the friendship.  I love to hear missionaries share their stories, feeling every fiber and thread of their narrative … and I feel much the same way toward Pastor Del.  He’s been a missionary to the people in his world for more than three decades, and he also has stories that I could sit and listen to for hours!  Pastor Del is not only a pastor, he is an avid hunter, a sportsman, a photographer, a writer, a narrator, a PopPop, father, husband, and friend.

Sunday morning was a highlight for me as I always anticipate God’s personal and intimate communication with me when I worship…our ‘secret’ vocabulary, if you will.  I’m one that enjoys the newer songs of today … popular praise and worship, but my heart is truly lifted to another level of worship as I’m carried back to my roots when I join a congregation to sing a familiar hymn.  Even though I can recite every written word as I harmonize to When We All Get to Heaven and I Will Serve Thee, the fact that I no longer sing them very often just magnifies the message of these old-time favorites.  In a warm embrace of God’s love to my soul, the service was closed with an extra special hymn that I remember all so well … gathered around the piano with two dear friends and singing from the depths of our hearts …

Sometimes the day seems long, Our trials hard to bear.
We´re tempted to complain, to murmur and despair.
But Christ will soon appear to catch his bride away!
All tears forever over in God’s eternal day!

CHORUS:
It will be worth it all when we see Jesus!
Life’s trials will seem so small when we see Christ.
One glimpse of his dear face, all sorrow will erase.
So, bravely run the race till we see Christ.

Mr. Fox

It WILL be worth it all … but until that day when we do see Jesus, won’t you join me as I follow the example of Pastor Del in being a missionary to my world?  Whether there is a certificate of ordination on the study wall, several pounds of deer bologna in the freezer, a beautiful stuffed critter by the name of Mr. Fox in the corner of the living room, or Spike, a lively spider who eats mosquitos by the porch light at the back door, in our unique and special ways, let’s do all we can do to be Jesus to the people in our lives every day.

Until next time,
Debbie

“You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden.
Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl.
Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.
 In the same way, let your light shine before men,
that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.

Matthew 5:14-16

PS  –  I would highly recommend a listen to Pastor Del’s sermon from this past Sunday, Sept 2.  It is not yet posted on the church’s website, but check back from time to time until you see it listed.  It’s part 2 to “You Ran Well”.  You will enjoy it!
http://www.tomsrivernaz.com/

Also, Pastor Del writes and then narrates a devotional … Enjoy his creativity and his love for nature, his family, and life.
http://www.jerseypilgrim.com/